Lists are for the supermarket and are eternally boring. No one wants a carefully scripted, drawn out BDSM scene – they never go the way that you have them planned in your head. That being said, here is a list of things I very much enjoy (those in bold are things that will immediately draw My attention). Most of My favourite acts have a strong psychological element of power exchange. For Me as a Dominatrix, this is where I derive most entertainment.
Please note this is not exhaustive but as anyone experienced in BDSM (either a Dominatrix or submissive) can tell you, it is impossible to write a generic list of likes as so many kinks lean into each other. It is also impossible to write a generic description of a fetish – humiliation is a wide umbrella for example ranging from traditional small penis humiliation into extremely niche areas such as mocking someone for their weight, being old etc. I have seen “forced intox” be applied to forcing someone to drink alcohol until they are drunk and open to suggestion, usually within findom (which is very different to My understanding of it, but never mind).
I am a sadist. I am very comfortable with – and quite honestly entertained/excited by – reducing a grown man to whimpering, crying and begging in My presence. That being said, I am not an unhinged liability to someone’s safety and will play with submissives along the lines of PRICK. One, because you don’t need yours anymore, and two:
I am generally open to most things in BDSM although there are a handful of exceptions.